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Monday, January 26, 2026

January 2026 – Another Kidney Stone…!

Matthew called me at work to let me know that he thought he had a kidney stone and needed to go to the ER. He was able to get a friend to pick him and Cooper up and bring him into the ER. Since it was just a kidney stone, they went to Covington, since it was the closest one and we thought we’d give them another try. That was our first mistake. They did some studies and low and behold he did have a kidney stone. They diagnosed him with a 15 mm Staghorn kidney stone which is one that he had not had before. They are created from ongoing kidney infection. So, on top of the kidney stone, he also had a kidney infection which needed to be treated and Acute Kidney Disease.

Of course, I didn’t find this out until the end of the day so after work, I headed right to the Covington ER and spent the evening trying to figure out what the plan was. Since there was no one capable of dealing with it at the Covington Hospital, they were waiting on a room to open up at the Auburn Hospital where he was going to be admitted. Cooper and I waited with Matthew as long as we could, but around 11:00 pm, Matthew sent us home to get something to eat and some sleep.

The next morning, we woke up and packed our bags to go back to the hospital to see Matthew again. We got to Covington only to find out Matthew was not there… he didn’t remember being transferred to Auburn in the middle of the night and they never contacted me like I requested. Another strike against Covington… on top of the fact that instead of giving him pain meds they only offered him Toradol which is not good for kidney issues. My frustration with Covington ER continues to grow every time we go there… so once again they are on our DO NOT RETURN list.

Cooper and I finally find Matthew at the Auburn hospital where he is a little more comfortable. The next step was to place a Nephrostomy Tube into his kidney to drain the blocked urine. They had already started him on IV fluids and antibiotics.

Cooper and I left him briefly during the surgery to head to Faith for Vic Quinn’s memorial service. The memorial and Matthew being in the hospital was a reminder of how fragile life is. We didn’t stay long at the memorial, but it was important for me to go there since I have known him and his family since I was 15 years old. My heart goes out to Myrna, Michelle, Scott and the rest of the family as they grieve the loss of Vic. At the same time, I wanted to be by Matthew’s side as he was suffering in the hospital.

On Sunday, Matthew was in a place where he could come home and recover. I started doing research once we got home and found out that the Nephrostomy tube was only to drain the kidneys and wouldn’t break up the stone, so we contacted this urologist for next steps and pain doctor to get him meds to cover the 15 mm kidney stone while he waited. 


Matthew was miserable... Kidney Stone, Kidney Infection and AKI. 


We found him... in Auburn!


He went in for an appointment with his urologist on Wednesday, only to have the Nephrostomy tube not draining and the doctor telling him to go to the ER to make sure it was inserted properly (after flushing it himself). While Matthew was in a bed in the hallway of the ER, the tube started draining again, from the flush his urologist did, but we still did all the tests.

Tacoma ER is quite the interesting location… while Matthew was off doing testing, Cooper and I were sitting there waiting in the hallway. One of the patients came out of the room demanding to use a phone. She escalated and started attacking the staff and trying to throw a computer. The staff didn’t really know how to respond other than call security and left a patient in a bed right in her vicinity… thankfully security arrived within minutes and escorted her back to her room. She was only a few feet from where I was sitting but I kept Cooper further away from the action and safe.

By the time Matthew returned everything was calm and the security never left their post outside her room. It didn’t take long for them to let us know that the tube was in the right location and Matthew was safe to go home. So, we returned home and contacted the surgery scheduler for the urologist only to find out that he was going out of town, and it would be a couple weeks before he could do the surgery… his pain doctor was also going out of town… just his luck. He did have antibiotics to get the infection under control, and we learned the trick to flush the nephrostomy tube instead of going into the ER every time it stopped working. 

Watching movies while we watied... 

Cooper sleeping - through it all

 

After the urologist came back from vacation, Matthew did some more testing to find out that the stone was not 15 mm after all. In fact, clearing up the infection and flushing out the kidneys did the trick, and he wasn’t going to need surgery. Praise Jesus! The doctor thinks that the stone was covered with infection making it appear larger than it was. So, instead of surgery, they removed the tube and he was good to go. The tube itself was causing him a lot of pain so he was so happy to have it removed.

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